tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50741373558456692792024-03-13T15:17:07.557-05:00My Journey through Life, Marriage, and MotherhoodJennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.comBlogger150125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-51292702957562865882016-06-18T00:40:00.000-05:002016-08-05T01:23:56.808-05:00LossNate and I have been "on the fence" about a third baby for a while. I say that in quotes because that was usually my standard answer every time I was asked about adding to our brood. "I don't know.... we're on the fence." <br />
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Recently though, we decided to give it a go. A couple of days before my period was due in May, I took a test - negative. A couple of days later, another test. Still negative. Another couple of days after that... you get the picture. I gave up. I was well beyond when my period was due so if I was pregnant, it would have shown up. I knew I wasn't pregnant. </div>
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Then on May 29th, right around midnight, I realized I <i>still</i> hadn't gotten my period. I took the test and then set it aside on the counter and got on Instagram to kill time while waiting for the 3 minutes for the test to do its thing. So after falling into a rabbit hole and completely forgetting about the test, I shut my phone off 10 ish minutes later wondering why I was standing in the bathroom playing on my phone. <br />
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OH! The test. Yes. I didn't forget.<br />
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Yes I did.<br />
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I picked it up and looked at it. It was positive. POSITIVE. I couldn't believe it. I took another test then to be sure. Still positive!<br />
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Of course, just like with the other 2 pregnancies, I woke Nate up and told him that I think I'm pregnant. Kinda tradition around here, I guess. <br />
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Unlike the other 2 pregnancies, we didn't tell anyone right away. I wanted to keep this one to ourselves for a little bit. <br />
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But just a few days later, I started spotting. Which I told myself was normal. I did when I was pregnant with Elizabeth, too. The next day, I spotted a little more and had this horrible back ache that reminded me a little too much of labor. Awful. <br />
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By Friday (June 3rd) I knew. It was too much blood. I called my doctor and they wanted me to come in for an ultrasound at 2:30, which was a couple of hours away. Nate and Anna came with me, while Elizabeth was at her last day of 1st grade. <br />
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I cried during the duration of the ultrasound. Anna kept trying to console me and even gave me Baby's Doggy to hold. The tech was super nice and tried saying things like, "It could just be too early." But I knew. <br />
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I went to to the bathroom to change and just sobbed. That was rough.<br />
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Then we went back to meet with my doctor, who was wonderful and amazing and compassionate and I love her. <br />
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We picked Elizabeth up from her "Grandma" Jeanine, who was able to get her from the bus stop. Jeanine was the first to know that I was pregnant, and that now I wasn't.<br />
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We went home and I took advil for the backache and cried for several days. I was surrounded by some great friends and family who loved and supported me.<br />
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But it still... sucks. Our baby died. <br />
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It was a heart breaking, gut wrenching kind of pain. Not physical pain anymore, since I was able to take advil. Now it was an emotional pain.<br />
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Based on my last period, I was only 6 weeks along. It was so early. I didn't even get a chance to hear the heartbeat. I have read stories and articles about people who have surely suffered far worse than I have. Mothers who gave birth to a stillborn baby, or ones that knew early on that their baby wouldn't make it, but chose to carry her to term anyway, only for her to die in their arms. A friend, who is an OB nurse, told me some devastating stories of loss that turned into wonderful miraculous stories later on. I felt an incredible amount of guilt for being so heart broken when others have had it so much worse. <br />
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So then it really hit hard when she said that other losses aren't greater than mine. That I lost my baby and it is okay that I am sad. <br />
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So for now I am sad and I miss our baby that I never got the chance to know.<br />
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Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-42535025401213632442013-09-09T17:53:00.000-05:002013-10-29T15:22:45.660-05:00Happy 1st Birthday, Anna!Dear Anna,<br />
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Today you turned one!! Baby girl, that is so hard to believe. You were just born! It was only yesterday that I held you for the first time! Except... it wasn't. It was a year ago. Wow.<br />
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You know, there were times when your Daddy and I were undecided about having another baby. Your sister has always kept us pretty busy! But we decided to go for it and I got pregnant. We are so blessed! What I didn't know until I held you was that there was this Anna sized hole in my heart before I had you. You were missing from my life and I just didn't know it yet. You, sweetheart, are in my heart and my soul and I simply can not imagine my life without you in it. <br />
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It has been so much fun watching you grow up this past year. You went from a teeny, tiny baby, so dependent on your mama, to a little girl who loves to explore the world around her. I love watching you play and climb and dance your way through the day. I love celebrating each new milestone you reach and watching your mind work as you learn new things. <br />
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Your smile is breathtaking. Seeing those dimples.... it instantly makes me happy. Your giggles and laughter is the sweetest sound. I pray that you are always this happy. People often comment about how you are such a happy girl, that you are very easy going. This is so true and yet, you know exactly what you want! You are definitely a girl with opinions of her own. I also pray that you always stay true to that and that you always go after what you want!<br />
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I have so many hopes and dreams for you and your sister. God has a purpose for you and I know you both will do amazing things. I hope you follow your dreams and are never afraid to be who you are. I hope you know that you are never alone. I will always, always be here for you, sweet girl. Whether you need a kiss on an owie or a hand to hold if you are scared or a shoulder to cry on if some guy is ever stupid enough to break your heart... I'm here. You are so loved, baby girl. <br />
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You are growing up so fast. I blinked and you turned one. I'm so afraid to blink again! I'm trying my best to slow time down, but no luck so far. <br />
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I love you so, so much, Anna. I am so very blessed to call you mine.<br />
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Love, <br />
MommyJennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-30677542168307634712013-09-09T09:00:00.000-05:002013-11-05T00:09:20.813-06:00Birthday Girl :)<center>
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Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-84280752392970995872013-08-09T15:30:00.002-05:002013-08-09T15:31:18.531-05:00Anna updates!Where did the time go?! Anna will be ONE in A MONTH! <br />
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I have totally failed at keeping this thing up to date. I am too busy chasing around these pretty girls, I guess! <br />
Anyway, Anna turned 11 months old today! She is getting way too big. We started trying to teach her to raise her arms when we ask her how big she is. As in, "Soooo big!" She will <i>sometimes</i> raise her arms up and flap them around like a bird. It is a start! <br />
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My little girl is still pretty little. She weighs about 16 lbs, which I believe is how much her big sis weighed at 11 months. But Anna seems to have a little bit more baby chub on her legs. Not much though! <br />
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Anna LOVES eating. Loves it. She eats anything I put in front of her. She eats the fruit and veggie purees I make for her and also little finger foods. She also loves her puffs and yogurt bites. I wonder how long this non-picky thing will last... <br />
ALSO! She finally got a tooth! Like, today! It finally poked through! It looks like there are a couple more that are going to poke through soon too. Eleven months old and girlfriend got herself a fancy new tooth! This might explain her HORRIBLE sleep habits the last few nights. Which brings me to... <br />
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Anna hates sleep. Or at least hates having a decent amount of consecutive hours of sleep. We thought Elizabeth was a terrible sleeper! I can count on one hand the number of times she has slept through the night. (I can probably count them on 3 fingers.) At least Lizzie would have a few weeks here and there where she would sleep all night. <br />
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Anna still wakes up around every 3 hours. Sometimes more, sometimes less. The last few nights, there were times where she would wake up every half hour. The only real change is the time that she sleeps. We went through a stage where she wouldn't go to sleep until 3 or 4 in the morning. That one was rough. Then for a while it was between 12 and 1 AM. Right now, for the most part, she goes to sleep between 10:30 and 11:30, which is so significantly better. The time is coming soon where she will get "sleep trained." I'm already dreading it. <br />
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Anna is still nursing, which I am super proud of. My goal is a year, just like with Elizabeth, and we are almost there!! I ended up nursing for 14 months (and one day) with Liz, so we'll see how long I can go this time. I am worried about my supply though. The tricky thing with breastfeeding is you have no idea how much they are actually getting. Also, since Anna never sleeps, I haven't been able to get an extra pumping session in the middle of the night to build up my freezer stash. So my "stash," which is in quotes because it can't really be called a stash, is about 4 bottles worth. Not good! <br />
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I think she's getting pretty close to walking. Not tomorrow or anything, but soon-ish. She can stand for several seconds at a time, then will slowly sit down (or sometimes plop on her butt). She walks around as long as she is holding on to something, like the couch or my fingers.<br />
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I think Anna's favorite game lately is fetch. She throws something, we fetch it. It is hilarious! For now, anyway. Even if I'm not handing her something, sometimes she'll reach for whatever is in my hand(for example, her binky), and then throw it on the floor. <br />
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OH, and she also sticks her tongue out now when I do! It is super hilarious. <br />
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Since I have been such a failure at updating this thing, here is a list of random "Anna Firsts" that I have stored on a note in my phone. Hey, at least I did that!<br />
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<li>At 3 weeks 5 days, she smiled! </li>
<li>At 8 weeks, she giggled. Such a beautiful sound!</li>
<li>November 10th - 2 months old - she rolled over from stomach to back</li>
<li>January 1st - 3.5 months - she found her feet! Love this.</li>
<li>At 4 months old, she cried when I leave the room. Don't love this so much. But I do a little bit. She's a mama's girl. :)</li>
<li>January 26th - 4.5 months - she rolled over from back to stomach</li>
<li>March 3rd - almost 6 months - ate baby food (baby oatmeal) for the first time!</li>
<li>7 months old - rolled everywhere! She could roll across any room. Also, she could sit up unassisted, but tipped easily. </li>
<li>7.5 months - Pulled herself up to sitting position all by her little self.</li>
<li>Around 8 months - she pulled herself up to her knees</li>
<li>Also at 8 months, she started waving bye bye! Sort of.</li>
<li>At 8.5 months, she pulled herself up to her feet! She also began crawling on May 25th! Look out world.</li>
<li>At 9 months old, she started saying "Bup!" all the time. Love love love it.</li>
<li>9.5 months - she started dancing!! Also, she started giving high fives. So cute.</li>
<li>July 19th - 10 months - she stood up on her own for 2-3 seconds at a time. </li>
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LOVE this little girl!!!Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-66479967498694213182013-04-24T10:59:00.002-05:002013-06-05T16:12:09.277-05:00Mom of TwoThere are many differences between being a parent of one and a parent of two. There are the obvious differences, of course. It takes longer to do... everything. It takes longer to go anywhere. There is so.much.more laundry. WAY more toys. A lot more messes. SO much less sleep. And of course, more love and cuddles and hugs and little feet to kiss. <br />
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But one of the biggest differences of being a mom of two for me, is that I am now so acutely aware of how quickly the days, weeks, months, years fly by and just how warped time is when watching your baby grow up. When Elizabeth was a baby, I just kind of took it for granted that the baby stage lasts forever. Or at least a very, very long time. <br />
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Then I blinked and Elizabeth turned 4 1/2 the other day. How did that happen? How has it been 4 1/2 years since I held her in that hospital bed after pushing her out for two hours? <br />
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Every single day I look at Anna and know that this time is so, so limited. She will only be a baby for such a short time. She is growing so very fast. She is 7 1/2 months old today. The baby stage does NOT last forever or for a very, very long time. It flies by at warp speed. And then? They aren't babies anymore. Ever again. <br />
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So for now I cuddle and kiss and relish in the baby that she is today. Because she'll be big all too soon. <br />
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This next part is a piece of a blog post from Jill at BabyRabies.com. She wrote a letter to her 51 year old self and I can relate to every word. (<a href="http://www.babyrabies.com/2012/07/a-letter-to-my-51-year-old-self/">Here is the link to the entire blog post.</a>)<br />
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<em>Even though you were tired and challenged, exasperated and overwhelmed, you knew then that you would miss these days…most of them, at least. It was a truth that was hard to live with, and most of the time you ignored it because there was nothing you could do about the passing of time. If you spent your days mourning the ones that had gone by, you’d miss out on the days you were living in.</em><br />
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<em>You knew you were on a light rail, moving at speeds you couldn’t comprehend. You had no control over the ride that brought you to where you are today, but believe me when I say you searched so very hard to find the emergency brake.</em><br />
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<em>Please know, please remember that you tried to savor that time. Be at peace, knowing you spent late afternoons curled up with them on the couch, that sometimes you just sat and watched them move and run, that occasionally you took inventory of all the things they’d learned in the last week, and that you appreciated your time with them the best you knew how. Know that despite your very best efforts, there was no way to freeze time.</em><br />
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<br />Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-91922517944379810492013-03-09T16:42:00.000-06:002013-06-05T16:42:49.698-05:00Happy 1/2 Birthday, Anna!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-63192778808902501952013-02-09T16:36:00.000-06:002013-06-05T16:43:16.752-05:00Anna is 5 months old!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-66261101723613081992013-01-24T02:14:00.001-06:002013-01-24T02:15:24.797-06:00Big SisterWhen I was pregnant with Anna, I was quite nervous about how Elizabeth would take having a new baby in the house. I was expecting jealousy, anxiety, regression, some sort of adjustment period... I kept expecting the jealousy to just show up one day, for Lizzie to be mad that Anna is getting more attention or pissed that she is playing with one of HER toys, or for Lizzie to ask the question that I feared the most... "Can't we put her back in??" So far.... <br />
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I am totally blown away with how awesome Elizabeth is with Anna. She exceeded all my expectations of how life with an infant and older sibling would go. Seeing them together makes my heart go all melty. <br />
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At first, Elizabeth kept track of how many times she held Anna. Like, "This is my very first time holding Anna!" and "This is my 8th time holding Anna!" Then she would tell everyone who would listen that she had held Anna however many times. I think she lost track around 12 or 13. <br />
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<em>The first time Elizabeth held Anna. </em></div>
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<li>She does her "job" of bringing dirty diapers from the living room to the diaper champ in the nursery (she will say, "Oh, I have a job to do!" whenever she sees a diaper sitting there. Hilarious.) </li>
<li>She insisted on buying Anna the really expensive teether giraffe named Sophie, and basically makes sure she has it at all times because she knows Anna loves it so much (she actually does seem to really enjoy the dang giraffe). </li>
<li>When Anna fusses, Elizabeth has said many times, "Anna, why are you crying? You have a big sister!" </li>
<li>She loves holding Anna's hand, or rather, she loves when Anna holds her finger. Every time she says something like, "Mom, look! Anna's holding my finger! Take a picture!" </li>
<li style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">After Anna was born, even when we were still in the hospital, Elizabeth would climb on the couch, put a pillow in her lap, and hold her arms out. That was her way of saying she wanted to hold her sister. </li>
<li style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I told Elizabeth that it is so cool that she has a sister because some day they'll be best friends and can be each other's maids of honor, etc. and she said to me, "Mom, we are <em>already</em> best friends."</li>
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<br />Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-14315616213150378122012-12-03T19:00:00.000-06:002013-01-29T00:33:03.047-06:00A glimpse into life with an infantI glanced at the clock and saw that Anna and I would have to leave in a couple minutes to go pick up Elizabeth from preschool. No problem, since Anna was still sleeping in her car seat from when we dropped Liz off at preschool a couple of hours earlier. <br />
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I should have known better! Anna decided now was a good time to wake up and insist on eating. Okay, fine, I'll give her a quick snack, but we have to leave SOON.<br />
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So while eating, she pooped. Of course she did. <br />
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She finished eating and I laid her down to change her, knowing full well that she was most likely not finished filling her pants. While reaching for another wipe.... she pooped again. All over her clothes. <br />
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I tried my best to get the clothes off of her without spreading poop everywhere. Then ran back to her room to get clean clothes. When I got back, I started putting the clothes on only to realize she had spit up and it was all over the back of her head. At this point, I just laughed. The laugh-so-you-don't-cry kind of laugh.<br />
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I cleaned that up and wiped her off the best I could and got her dressed, stuff her back into her car seat, and we ran out the door.<br />
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And guess what? We STILL weren't the last ones picking up a preschooler!Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-14420361133349634032012-11-09T17:20:00.000-06:002013-01-03T17:23:12.139-06:00Anna is 2 months old!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Our sweet baby girl is here! She was born on September 9, 2012 at 5:54 PM. She weighed 7 lbs 13 oz and was 21.5" long. Mom did an excellent job writing down details from the day in a special green notebook (even what time Nate had lunch!), but unfortunately that notebook has gone missing. So I'm going to do my best to remember details.<br />
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I ended up being induced. At my appointment on September 4th, the doctor decided that I didn't need to induce on the 5th like we were tentatively planning. That was kind of a shock. But he did want the baby to be born by the end of the weekend. We went with Sunday just to give me another day to hopefully go naturally. No such luck.<br />
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So on Saturday evening, we took Elizabeth over to Nana and Papa's house to spend the night. I cried and cried. I had been super emotional about Elizabeth no longer being an only child and not getting to spend as much time with her. I'm thrilled for her that she is getting a new baby sister, and she's excited too, but her life is about to change so much. Then I had to drop her off and couldn't even spend her last night as an only child with her, also knowing that I'd be in the hospital for a few days and wouldn't see her much. Anyway, I was an emotional wreck. Fun!<br />
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Sunday morning we made it over to the hospital almost on time (7:13 AM). We got the same room at the end of the hallway that we were in when Elizabeth was born! (yay!) <br />
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After getting changed into the hospital gown, the nurse came in to put my IV in. Wow. That sucked. After two unsuccessful attempts in my left hand, I started feeling light headed and nauseous. I didn't actually throw up, but it was close. I've never had a reaction like that to needles, as much as I hate them. An older nurse came in to try it on my other hand. That sucked too, but at least it worked that time. She said whenever I need an IV, look for the oldest nurse because she has the most experience.<br />
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They started the pitocin around 9:30 and contractions started coming regularly an hour or two later. They were uncomfortable but tolerable. I was able to talk through them and everything. I mostly felt them towards the bottom of my belly. At one point, after coming back from the bathroom and climbing into bed, I mentioned how I felt like I was leaking. Could this possibly be amniotic fluid?? I was really stoked that SOMETHING with this labor could be happening naturally! Someone got the nurse and she tested with some tape thing and said it was negative. I was bummed. But then she checked me and said that my water had definitely broken. She said when she moved her hand, there would be a gush. And? There was a gush! Yay!<br />
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The contractions started getting more intense and the anesthesiologist came in around 12:30 for my epidural and got done around 1:00. This actually sucked. A lot. With Elizabeth, I remember this process being fairly quick and easy. This time, I had 3 numbing shots (or "bee stings") and he had to try a couple times to find a good spot to put in the epidural because the first spot caused pain on my left side. At some point, I remember hearing Nate breathing funny, like real quick breaths. I thought maybe he was trying to get me to mimic his breathing or something, but I had to keep looking down so I couldn't see what he was doing. After the poking of all the needles was done and he was pretty much just putting in the medicine (or whatever it is they do after poking with all the needles), Nate said something about feeling faint. I looked up at him and he was white as a ghost. He almost fainted because he was so worried about me. (Aww... :) Not that I wanted him to faint! The nurse told him to go sit down in the rocking chair. He kept saying how he felt like a wimp, and I'm the one that needed supported, he held out as long as he could, etc. What a sweetie. <br />
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So when the epidural didn't really seem to be working, I was pretty upset. The anesthesiologist came back in after 15-20 minutes with a glove filled with ice and asked how cold it felt on different parts of my legs. When I didn't feel the cold on the calf of one of my legs he said, "It must be working," and left soon after with instructions to call if we needed anything. I remember with the epidural I had with Elizabeth, I was feeling much, much better by the time the anesthesiologist left the room. This time, I was in quite a bit of pain still. The nurse asked if we should call him back in to try again. Nope.<br />
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However, when the nurse checked me, I felt nothing down there!! Which is actually a pretty big deal. Every time my doctor checked me at appointments and when the nurse checked me up til that point, it HURT. It hurt SO BAD. Apparently my cervix was waaaay back there. They had to reach AROUND the baby's head to find the cervix. I swore my doctor was up to his elbow in there. It SUCKED. So when I wasn't able to feel anything after the epidural, I was thrilled. I still felt every contraction in my abdomen though.<br />
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I remember telling Nate around 5:20 that this baby had an hour and 40 minutes to get out. I didn't want to switch nurses half way into pushing like I did with Elizabeth! (Actually, with Liz, I had the same nurse all day and started pushing at 6:45. Fifteen minutes later, there was a shift change and I had a new nurse.)<br />
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The doctor came in and checked me (if I were to guess, I'd say around 5:30), then said they were going to get some things to set up and then I can push. I was shocked. I asked if I was at 10 cm. He said yep!<br />
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Things got even more intense from there. Everybody was moving quickly. My abdomen and back HURT really bad and my right hip/leg started hurting so bad with each contraction. I remember saying to Nate after a particularly bad contraction that, "This is going to suck." All of a sudden, the doctor was instructing my mom how to hold up my leg and telling me to hold my thighs when I'm pushing, etc. And then I was pushing. I had four people yelling at me to push. I pushed with everything I had. But... I couldn't feel it! I couldn't tell if I was just making intense pushy faces or if I was pushing my guts out. These four voices were telling me that I was doing great and they could see so much of her head, etc, so apparently I was doing something right. I just focused on my doctor and what he was saying to me. <br />
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Nate said, "Did you just hear what the nurse said?" Then he told me that she had been on the phone with someone (no idea who) and said something about how I have one push left. I said, "What?!" She nodded. Okay, maybe I can do this! <br />
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So I pushed one more time and everyone said, "Her head is out!" And I'm thinking, "Are you freaking kidding me?!?" Then, just like that, she was out. After about 3 contractions and maybe 4-5 pushes, my daughter was out!<br />
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Mom went over there and I guess pretty much collapsed on the couch. I told Nate to go over there to be with the baby. He clearly felt bad about leaving me alone, he kept coming halfway back across the room and turning around, not knowing what to do. I said that as long as she was fine, I was fine. I was busy getting stitched up anyway. (Which hurt not at ALL, by the way. WAY different than after Elizabeth was born.) I thought it was sweet that he didn't want to leave me alone though! They kept assuring me that she was fine and oh so beautiful! </div>
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After she was pink enough, they brought her back to me and laid her on my chest. They were right. This girl was gorgeous. She has my ear lobes and Nate's toes. She has Elizabeth's cute little nose. Lots of dark hair and a perfectly sized abdomen, if I do say so myself. Then she started rooting around. It was adorable and shocking! I moved her over to my breast and she latched on perfectly. What a good girl.</div>
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I'll start with an update on the baby. I first felt her move during the first week of April (17 weeks) and felt her move from the outside on May 12th (at 22 weeks). But the movements were few and far between. As the weeks went on, I was concerned and told my doctor about it. I know babies are all different, and some move more than others, but still. During the ultrasound (on June 25th, 29 weeks), he agreed that she didn't move a whole lot. So he gave me two HUGE glasses of water to drink and a handful of Hershey's kisses. Then they set me up on the fetal monitors to track her movements. It took a while, but I guess eventually the chocolate made it to her system, because she started moving around quite a bit. Doctor looked at the results that printed out and said she was fine. Phew! <br />
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<em>July 21st - at 32 weeks pregnant and also our 5 and 10 year anniversary. </em></div>
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So fast forward a few weeks... At 32 weeks, I went in for another appointment and the doctor said her tummy was measuring small. (On the plus side though, her head was measuring HUGE.) So this was concerning for us. He said he wanted me to come in weekly to keep an eye on tummy (or "abdomen," if you're a grown up. Happy, Nate?) growth. He said this could indicate that growth is not being distributed properly. The next week, he said that the tummy still looked small, but was in the normal range. (Also, head is still huge - like, 97th percentile huge.) And now, after keeping an eye on it, he seems less concerned and said that the baby is little, but has a big head. Nate said she is going to look like a lollipop when she comes out. I was not amused. At my appointment yesterday, he guessed her to be around 5.5 - 6 lbs. What a difference from Elizabeth! I was worried about how big she was going to be! Now with this one, we are concerned with her being too little. Whatever though. My babies are perfect no matter their size. :)<br />
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Last week, my amniotic fluid was a little low, at 7.25. I guess normal is 8.0 and REALLY low, like, you need to be induced right now, is 5.0. Also, just like her sister, this baby thinks she needs to accessorize with the umbilical cord around her neck. Although it is just draped over her shoulders (like a stethoscope), where Elizabeth had her's all wrapped around her neck. So the doctor started talking about the possibility of inducing at 39 weeks. He wanted me to come in twice this week to check on the fluid levels. So yesterday was my first of these appointments. And the amniotic fluid was up to 9 something! Such a relief. And the cord is still just draped around her shoulders. So based on yesterday's appointment, we are now leaning towards not inducing next week and just letting her come naturally. We'll see what happens at my appointment on Thursday...<br />
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I'm in a fairly constant level of discomfort, to say the least. When this baby isn't rolling around on my bladder, she is punching me in the cervix. My heart burn still sucks. My lower back / tail bone on the right side has hurt for a few months, but in the last 4-5 days, it has hurt really bad. It feels like something is out of place. Sometimes it has been hard (or harder) to walk (waddle?). My pubic bone hurts and pops unpleasantly when I move around, especially at night. Breathing is difficult. I can't find a comfortable position to sit or lay in that helps me breath easier. OH, and something that is extra helpful with the breathing? I have broncitis. I have been coughing constantly for almost 3 weeks now. These last few days it does finally seem to be getting better. I'm still coughing, but not as much and not with as much force. Fun! <br />
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And the lack of movement issue that we were having earlier in the pregnancy? Gone. She moves all the time. And kicks, punches, squirms, wiggles her toes up under my ribs. It is usually awesome and sometimes painful. But mostly awesome. <br />
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We are pretty excited to meet our baby girl! Elizabeth is pretty excited too. She keeps asking when baby sister is going to knock on my tummy and tell us she wants out. Soon! So very soon!Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-66603865944846822882012-07-18T15:32:00.000-05:002012-08-28T15:33:42.032-05:0030 weeks!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This is another picture where I stole the idea from Pinterest. :) We were in the Ozarks and it was about 400 degrees and we were putt putt golfing and thought we should get this picture. I love it so much. And I love that little girl in the picture so much. It is such a blast sharing this whole experience with Lizzie.Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-61668083711985478682012-06-01T12:00:00.000-05:002013-01-29T00:32:01.258-06:00Bet she never asks that again...Elizabeth: "Why do we speak English?"<br />
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Well this pregnancy is over the half way point! I am feeling okay, just tired. And I get heartburn way more this time around. I'm also way more emotional and hormonal this time! I don't care for that and I think it is pretty safe to say that Nate doesn't care for that either.</div>
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We finally get called back! Only to be told, "The doctor isn't here right now because he's delivering a baby."</div>
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So then we wait even longer in the exam room than in the waiting room. Finally get called in for the ultrasound. The baby was being super cute and moving around and waving and all that. BUT... the ornery cuss would not show its business. Or the PA wasn't experienced enough to distinguish business. Rats.<br />
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We had to wait another bit so they could sneak us back in between patients. Fine with me! Once he started the ultrasound, he was able to tell fairly quickly what he thought it was. He said he was 80% sure. He printed out an ultrasound picture and put it in an envelope for us to open later. Later happened to be in the parking lot. <br />
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We went to Hy Vee and got a couple of these balloons for the grandparents. (Same thing I did when pregnant with Elizabeth. At least I'm consistant?) We went to lunch with Rob and Judy to tell them, then to my parents house to tell them and my younger brothers. The other siblings got this picture of the balloon as their big fancy annoucement. :)</div>
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I found out I was pregnant on January 2nd. I tested pretty early. The test had the lightest pink line of all light pinks lines. I looked at the test and thought, "...bummer. No line. Wait.... what is that? IS THAT A LINE?!" I looked at that thing from all angles. Yep. Definitely a pink line!!<br />
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I wanted to tell Nate right away and in a super cute way. But right after I tested didn't seem like the time. I ended up going to lunch with Katy and not mentioning it the entire time. Do you realize how hard that was?!<br />
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When I got home, of course I did the only logical thing to do. I peed on another stick. Again it was sooooo light. But it was there! So my super cute way to tell Nate we are expecting Junior Squid?<br />
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But of COURSE, when Mom gets to the house, she needs to use the restroom. And of COURSE, Lizzie had to go with her. I should mention Elizabeth was wearing a "Big Sister" shirt with a little pink sweater over it to cover it up. While waiting for mom to come out of the bathroom, Nate comes into the living room and motions for me to get my butt to the kitchen. I rush in there and he says, "Elizabeth is in there yelling stuff about big sister!"<br />
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Poor dad had no idea what was going on! I had to call Lizzie into the room so he could read her shirt. Then I said, "Well this is how you were SUPPOSED to find out!" and handed them the gift. Oh well, Lizzie telling them was even cuter.<br />
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Then we went up to Rob and Judy's. I made them a similar frame, except with a lot more pictures to include all the grandkids! I wrapped it in such a way so that the last photo had an extra piece of wrapping over it. When Judy opened it, she kind of squealed when she saw all of her granddaughters. Then she took off the last piece of wrapping and squealed even louder! It was so cute.<br />
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Then I sent all the aunts and uncles a picture of Lizzie in her Big Sister shirt. It was pretty adorable.</div>Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-19751067566353777782012-01-03T23:44:00.014-06:002012-05-19T19:54:35.016-05:00Circle of Life.Well, I have got to say, I am not too sorry to see 2011 go.<br />
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My poor family has been through quite a bit in the last several months. In the beginning of November (I'm pretty sure it was the 2<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">nd</span>), my Grandpa got so weak that he couldn't stay at home by himself anymore. It must have been so hard for him, but he called up my mom and finally took her up on the offer to come stay with her. So for a few weeks, she and my dad took care of him.<br />
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We hosted Thanksgiving at our house, in the basement, so Grandma and Grandpa could just come in the basement door in their wheel chairs and not have to get up the stairs somehow. It worked out pretty nicely. I am so glad we were all able to be together as a family for Thanksgiving. However, shortly after lunch, Grandpa didn't feel well and he slept in the guest room for the rest of the day. I liked him being there though. I just hope it wasn't too hard on him.<br />
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Pretty quickly, it was getting to the point that mom physically wasn't able to help him. One day Grandpa said to mom that he better go to the hospital, which is HUGE. Things would have to be really bad for him to suggest the hospital. So they went. He stayed there for about a week and then moved to the nursing home where he would be able to receive better care from people trained to help.<br />
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Meanwhile, the day before Thanksgiving, Mom found a lump in her breast. On December 1st, I accompanied her to Jennie Ed for an ultrasound to get it checked out. They thought that cyst looked fine. The other one, though, the one that she had checked out in February at Mercy and they said was totally fine and would never turn to cancer? Yeah that one... they thought that one looked suspicious. They were worried. They did a biopsy right then of the "cyst" that wasn't really a cyst and another biopsy of a lymph node. A whole agonizing day later, Dr. G called. She didn't have the official results yet, but they were worried and she was pretty sure it was cancer. This was a horrible weekend for all of us. Monday we got word: Moderately Differential Infiltrated <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Ductal</span> Carcinoma. My mom has breast cancer.<br />
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In the nursing home, Grandpa continued to grow weaker. He quit eating, quit drinking. Mom was told by an aide that she'd be surprised if Grandpa made it to Sunday (Dec 11<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">th</span>), the same day that mom was scheduled to go out to Cancer Treatment Centers of America in Zion, Illinois(a suburb of Chicago). Why an aide thinks she is in ANY position to give information like that is beyond me. Very frustrating. After much, much, MUCH deliberating, and after a hospice nurse gave mom some very profound advice, she finally decided to go ahead and go to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">CTCA</span> on the 11<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">th</span>. Saturday night, we all went to the nursing home and visited Grandpa. He was barely alert, but looked around at us when we talked and when I said "I love you, Grandpa," he said, "I love you, too." Then he said the same thing to mom when she told him she loves him. Those were the last words we ever heard him speak. Mom was sure this was her last goodbye with her dad.<br />
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During the week that mom and dad were in Illinois, I went to visit Grandpa almost every day. The aids said that he wasn't responding to anyone or anything anymore. Whatever. He totally responded to me. When I talked to him, he moved his arms around and reached his hand out. He acted like he wanted to say something but couldn't. Then Nate said something to him and got nothing. I talked to him again, and he moved his hand around again. I felt pretty special right then.<br />
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Once when I went in, I talked to him for a minute and didn't get a response. Then I started to give him some news from mom, and he responded a lot. Shifting his shoulders and moving his arms, reaching out his hand. Then he seemed to pull at his blanket. I asked, "Are you too hot?" obviously not expecting an answer. I swear, I SWEAR I saw him shake his head ever so slightly. I told Grandma about it, and she said that earlier that day, she asked him if he wanted his mouth wiped with the wet sponge, and she said she saw him nod. While I was thrilled that it seemed like he could understand and hear what we were saying, I was also a little heart broken that he could hear and understand, but couldn't say anything back. I hope he wasn't upset or frustrated about that.<br />
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The news I told Grandpa about Mom that seemed to excite him so much is this... Mom's cancer hasn't spread. She has Stage 2 cancer and it is in both the "cyst" that Mercy said was fine and also 2 lymph nodes. It hadn't spread anywhere else. Thank God. Thank GOD. Her doctor said she was curable. Not treatable, mind you. <em>Curable</em>! However, she does still have to go through 4 rounds of chemo, surgery, and then radiation. She was able to get through her first round of chemo on her birthday while out in Chicago (happy birthday to her!) before she came home.<br />
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I picked them up from the airport and we went straight to the nursing home. Grandpa held on for her. He hadn't had anything to eat or drink in a week or so. This was rough. Again, the aides said that Grandpa wasn't responding. When mom got in there and talked to him, he definitely knew she was there. He responded by moving his shoulders, his arms, his hands. She told him the news again and I know he heard her and was so happy.<br />
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I stayed with mom the next several nights to help her in any way I could. She had to get a shot the day after getting chemo to make her bones stay strong. Apparently this shot makes a person feel like they have a bad case of the flu for 3-4 days. Mom was so miserable. She felt horrible. We bunked out together downstairs and she pretty much slept for the first two days while I updated friends and family on what was going on. And I watched TV. A lot of TV. I didn't want to leave her side.<br />
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On December 18<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">th</span>, I rolled over on our makeshift bed on the floor, and mom told me that Grandpa had passed away. Dad had come down earlier after a phone call from the nursing home and told mom. Apparently I slept through it. Obviously, it wasn't a surprise. I wasn't shocked. It was actually a blessing that he lasted as long as he did. So why did it still feel like I was being punched in the gut? I cried, just a little. Dad went to the nursing home to be with Grandma and Grandpa. I asked mom what she wanted me to do, and she wanted me to stay there with her. I was a little relieved about that.<br />
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By this time, mom was feeling not great by any means, but better than before. She was able to get up and out of the house and make funeral plans, even if she did have to force herself. We went to the funeral home to make plans and Mom and I went to a meeting at Grandpa's church to talk to the pastor who would officiate at the funeral. He asked a lot of questions about Grandpa and what he was like growing up and throughout life. It was nice talking about him. Getting to tell someone what an amazing man my Grandpa was.<br />
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Mom looked gorgeous and healthy at the visitation and funeral, even though I'm sure she didn't feel it. The visitation was December 21st and the funeral... my grandpa's funeral was December 22<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">nd</span>. That is so hard to type out. The funeral was beautiful, if a funeral can be beautiful. The pastor did a great job of telling everybody how wonderful this man was. Like they didn't already know. Everyone loved him. They still love him.<br />
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One small blessing is that mom still had her own hair for the funeral. Several days after Christmas, mom's hair started shedding a little more than usual. Quickly, it started coming out by the handful. On December 31st, mom and I went for a spa day. She decided it was time to cut her hair off. I told her several times to try not to let it bother her. To think of it as, "Screw you, cancer, you can't get to me." Obviously, this is easier said than done. I could not even follow my own advice. Not even close. We both cried big <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">ol</span>' fat tears when she was sitting in the chair waiting for the stylist to come back with the right size clippers. I did still have plenty of "screw you, cancer" thoughts, though. Then we both got a pedicure and manicure. Not what most people have in mind for a girls day out, but we had fun.<br />
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Today mom and I went to the wig shop and picked up her new hair. She really likes her new bangs! Tomorrow I will drop mom and dad off at the airport so she can head to Chicago for her second round of chemo.<br />
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So 2011... I'm not all that sorry to say that I won't miss you. I hope and pray that 2012 will be a year of joy and hope and healing and recovery and LIFE.<br />
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Also? I'm pregnant. :) So come on 2012... let's see where you take us. Please be nice.Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-12042627525409118142011-11-23T09:44:00.004-06:002012-05-22T10:49:28.934-05:00She'll still need me... right?!After I read Elizabeth a story, she turned and hugged me and patted me on the back. What a nice cuddle, I thought. And then...<br /><br />E: "When I grow up, I'm not even going to need a mommy anymore."<br /><br />That sound you heard? Was my heart shattering all across the floor.<br /><br />Me: "But I'm a grown up and I still need my mommy. Do you think you'll still need your mommy when you are grown up?"<br /><br />E: "No. Because I'll grow up and be a big kid and I won't be a little kid anymore."<br /><br />Like I need reminders. She's getting big so fast.Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5074137355845669279.post-90379919853761989452011-10-30T16:19:00.001-05:002012-05-22T10:49:29.012-05:00Another potty training update :)So last week was Lizzie's first time in big girl undies. No big deal. AHH!!! <br /><br />She actually could have been switched over from pull ups to underwear a few weeks ago, but we hadn't made it to the store yet to buy them. Mommy fail.<br /><br />She hasn't had an accident during the day since before October 1st. Seriously, overnight it just seemed to click with her. We have been working on it this whole summer, and she has done decent. But as of October 1st... she gets it. She tells me every single time she has to go. When we are eating out at a restaurant, or shopping for groceries, in dance class... she never goes in her pants! Even during her nap time she knocks on the door when she has to go. It is pretty awesome. <br /><br />She is still in pull ups at night and has only had a couple incidents where she is wet in the mornings. I am pretty freakin excited and so proud of my big girl!Jennihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828494895481180434noreply@blogger.com0